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Re: Extended TV Guide spoilers

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt

Weirdly, my kink would be that Sam and Cas don't make it better with their penises and continue to fuck Dean without paying any attention to him at all but then surprise him with cuddles and pie after the sex or just at random. MY BRAIN MAKES NO SENSE.

Re: Extended TV Guide spoilers

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt

I would be up for that :).

I might have a serious sexual objectification kink and that might possibly work with it. And then they're nice after so I don't feel too horrible, yes, but during sex he's just sort of there to be used (but maybe he kind of likes that >.>).

Nonnie, I kind of like everything.

(captcha is apparently on board: subcu forcing.)

Re: Extended TV Guide spoilers

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ayrt

:D

I'm the anon who posted asking what that kink was a few days ago! Objectification seems to be a related but slightly variant kink, where the objectified person might be treated like a chair or a table as much as a sex toy. It's only the sex toy part that I'm interested in and I don't want them to ever forget that Dean's a person, I just want them to not care about it so much? Servicing kink was what we came up with to describe it and that works for me - the bottom servicing the top. Mmm.

I like it almost as a competition, where Sam might work on cleaning guns while Dean is seriously going at his cock under the table, deep throating it and giving it all he's got. The juxtaposition does it for me, with Dean trying to make Sam lose control and fuck his throat and Sam holding off as long as he possibly can until he gives in and goes to town.

And yes, they're very affectionate afterward and Dean might be pissed off that they don't seem to pay any attention to him during sex but in the long run, kind of likes it. It's nice when he's able to win and get them to pay freaking attention to him and though he won't ever admit it, if the choice is between a cold orgasm and a warm snuggle, he's touch starved enough to take the snuggle. He's used sex as a way to connect with people for so long that he's bewildered but rather entranced by the idea of sex with him being so unimportant, but cuddling and affectionate touches and talk are. He could get sex anywhere but it's been a long, long time since he's had the rest of it.

Re: Extended TV Guide spoilers

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt

Nonnie, this is a delicious concept! It will probably not surprise you if I say that I like this as well :D.

(There are actually things I don't like. Admittedly, it's a small list. But there are things on it.)

There's a difference between, say, human furniture and objectification, but it's one of those related things, yeah. I think probably objectification is the top-level classification and underneath it we have furniture (generally non sexual), servicing (which seems to involve active participation) and... something else, where the party being fucked is very passive, but it's very sexually focused, so it's about availability? Being used and all that. Hawt.

And, given your example with Sam and Dean and the guns, I do believe I saw a prompt on the kink meme along those lines; was that you? It was memorable for being pretty damned hot and something a little different.

Re: Extended TV Guide spoilers

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt

:D

That makes sense to me! Objectification as the umbrella term, the others being under it; servicing (which is being active), furniture kink (which is passive but nonsexual) and sextoy kink (which is passive but very sexual). I guess that last also ties into somnophilia or even bestiality, given how many people have said they like bestiality less for the animal and more for the top who only cares about their own pleasure? Being used is a very good way of describing it! Of the three, sextoy kink and servicing are both very hot to me but I don't get much out of furniture kink.

And um, very probably? /o\ Meme has me thinking of cockwarming and servicing recently and I prompted something for servicing kink because of it.

Now I want to know where cockwarming fits into the picture. Is it furniture kink since the cockwarmer's responsibility is just to act to keep the top's cock warm? It feels too sexualized for that for me, especially since cockwarming often leads into the top casually fucking the bottom's mouth when they feel like it, but at the same time, it isn't sexualized. I'm not sure how it fits.