I know myself and I know when I'm starting to feel things that could become problematic. In a case like this (and something like this actually did happen to me once, so I'm speaking from personal experience), if I knew I was becoming attracted to my friend and I wanted to continue my relationship with my current bf, I'd make the decision not to be around that friend anymore. Before it got to the point where I was in love with him, which is unfair to my boyfriend and even more unfair to the other guy's girlfriend, supposedly my close friend. Also, be busy, get a new hobby, join a new club or something, give yourself something else to think about rather than obsessing over the new guy.
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Re: Naive and inexperienced nonnie is hopeless :/
(Anonymous) 2011-08-16 04:41 pm (UTC)(link)I know myself and I know when I'm starting to feel things that could become problematic. In a case like this (and something like this actually did happen to me once, so I'm speaking from personal experience), if I knew I was becoming attracted to my friend and I wanted to continue my relationship with my current bf, I'd make the decision not to be around that friend anymore. Before it got to the point where I was in love with him, which is unfair to my boyfriend and even more unfair to the other guy's girlfriend, supposedly my close friend. Also, be busy, get a new hobby, join a new club or something, give yourself something else to think about rather than obsessing over the new guy.