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I took this opportunity to make a science thread.
http://spnanonhaven.livejournal.com/16094.html?thread=74410206#t74410206
I took this opportunity to make a science thread.
http://spnanonhaven.livejournal.com/16094.html?thread=74410206#t74410206
ayrt
Hrmmmm, that might work out. Would all black dress with color scarf/accessories work too or is that too plain?
I don't fuck around a funerals. All black is pretty much the way to go unless the person specially said so during life.
Hrmmmm, that might work out. Would all black dress with color scarf/accessories work too or is that too plain?
I don't fuck around a funerals. All black is pretty much the way to go unless the person specially said so during life.
ayrt
Frankly, I... can't make up my mind about that. Sorry, nonnie. /o\
Frankly, I... can't make up my mind about that. Sorry, nonnie. /o\
AFAIK it's ok. Is this gonna be a religious ceremony? Maybe in those, the religion in question has an opinion about wedding wear.. Have you tried asking the bride/groom, or are you not that close?
AYRT
For many, many years I suffered through demon fax machines, so I know of what you speak. I've only ever met one fax machine that wasn't evil, and I sometimes suspect that it was posessed by an angel with a crush on me. Because it never once jammed in *four* years. Sounds impossible, no? Then I went on vacation for ten days, and when I got back it was gone and my boss was like, "It just died and wouldn't do anything, so we bought a new one."
For many, many years I suffered through demon fax machines, so I know of what you speak. I've only ever met one fax machine that wasn't evil, and I sometimes suspect that it was posessed by an angel with a crush on me. Because it never once jammed in *four* years. Sounds impossible, no? Then I went on vacation for ten days, and when I got back it was gone and my boss was like, "It just died and wouldn't do anything, so we bought a new one."
That would very much be on-topic, though.
Ayrt
I know her older sister had a Catholic wedding, but while this is at a church it's not going to be the very, very long one. I'm not as close with the bride as am I with her family.
Would the above be okay? The all black dress with colorful scarf and/or accessories.
I know her older sister had a Catholic wedding, but while this is at a church it's not going to be the very, very long one. I'm not as close with the bride as am I with her family.
Would the above be okay? The all black dress with colorful scarf and/or accessories.
Ayrt
No need for a sorry. You did give me an alternative if I decide not to go with the dress. I have plenty of black skirt and lighter shirts combos I can go with.
No need for a sorry. You did give me an alternative if I decide not to go with the dress. I have plenty of black skirt and lighter shirts combos I can go with.
I think you can wear black to a wedding, as long as it's understated, it's fine. Little black dress? More than fine.
Though accessorizing with some color is never a bad thing; scarf/shoes/handbag... maybe a light colored bracelet, or a headband if that sort of thing suits you?
Though accessorizing with some color is never a bad thing; scarf/shoes/handbag... maybe a light colored bracelet, or a headband if that sort of thing suits you?
ayrt
Thank you!
I think I'm beginning to think up an alternative that will satisfy both my mother and sister (the black vs no black debate is still going on) and I don't have to scramble out to buy something.
Thank you!
I think I'm beginning to think up an alternative that will satisfy both my mother and sister (the black vs no black debate is still going on) and I don't have to scramble out to buy something.
No, it's an old superstition that wearing black to a wedding is bad luck and then it became a weird fashion rule like not wearing white after Labor Day. (In the U.S. anyway.)
If it's a daytime wedding you can wear black, but if it's an evening wedding, you're fine.
That's why I mentioned I was a tracker. I only saw the subject, it doesn't look any different than the subject of a thread in the on-topic posts. I've made the mistake before, of not looking at the header and just answering thinking it was on the regular post when it was really on the OT post..
ayrt
welcome :) I'm sure you'll look fabulous!
welcome :) I'm sure you'll look fabulous!
I've always seen her trolling SF_D and wtf_comms... It was like seeing a cockroach in my cheerios, finding her here: http://ditl.livejournal.com/1346491.html /vomits
This is a really weird question, but I just read the sweetest OC/Gossip Girl crossover (Lily and Kirsten were childhood friends, and the story followed their friendship over the years). Can anyone point me in the direction of other stories like it? The kind where each universe exists as is, but the characters are connected somehow? I'm not really involved in either fandom and have no idea where to look.
No one will probably reply to this but I'm leaving for school on Saturday night and I'm absolutely terrified. Packing is one of the most stressful things I've ever done and I'm just really scared about what it's going to be like for the next four years.
Older and wiser nonnies have advice?
Older and wiser nonnies have advice?
Aw, nonnie, I think it's normal to be scared - I know I was too when I left for college. Adjusting can be hard, but remember there will be lots of other people there in the same situation as you, so try to focus on all the awesome things you're going to do in these next four years instead. :)
I know it's terrifying (I remember watching my dad leave and feeling like I was 10 years old and going to summer camp for the first time), but you'll be fine, nonnie! At the beginning, during orientation and stuff, college feels a lot like summer camp, but once classes start and you fall into a routine, it'll get less strange and confusing. My general advice:
-Go to things. Join clubs, go to events, make an effort to hang out with people in your hall, especially at the beginning. At the beginning of school, everyone is new and looking to make friends, so take advantage of that and put yourself out there. Don't isolate yourself, and force yourself to reach out to people.
-College isn't high school. I remember in high school, it was Highly Embarrassing to be seen sitting in the cafeteria by yourself. College isn't like that. It's okay to be alone sometimes, too.
-Don't get so caught up in social stuff that you don't do your school work. School is a lot of work, and in the end it needs to be top priority.
-Be careful that you don't drink too much at parties. Especially if you're female, be aware of your surroundings. There's unfortunately a lot of sexual violence that happens on college campuses, so just beware of where you leave your drink, make sure you travel with friends, etc.
-Go to things. Join clubs, go to events, make an effort to hang out with people in your hall, especially at the beginning. At the beginning of school, everyone is new and looking to make friends, so take advantage of that and put yourself out there. Don't isolate yourself, and force yourself to reach out to people.
-College isn't high school. I remember in high school, it was Highly Embarrassing to be seen sitting in the cafeteria by yourself. College isn't like that. It's okay to be alone sometimes, too.
-Don't get so caught up in social stuff that you don't do your school work. School is a lot of work, and in the end it needs to be top priority.
-Be careful that you don't drink too much at parties. Especially if you're female, be aware of your surroundings. There's unfortunately a lot of sexual violence that happens on college campuses, so just beware of where you leave your drink, make sure you travel with friends, etc.
da
I second the advice to get out and do stuff. Even if you don't like it, you can always try another club. Just don't sit in your dorm those first few days and think about how homesick you are.
Conversely, don't be afraid to take Me Time. Sometimes you might just need some time alone to yourself to process everything.
You'll be fine, nonnie. Don't forget us <3333
I second the advice to get out and do stuff. Even if you don't like it, you can always try another club. Just don't sit in your dorm those first few days and think about how homesick you are.
Conversely, don't be afraid to take Me Time. Sometimes you might just need some time alone to yourself to process everything.
You'll be fine, nonnie. Don't forget us <3333
Been there. Ended up falling into depression and moved back to my parents' house after a year. Luckily, I quickly got into another university, this one better suited to my tastes. But maybe I would have been able to enjoy the other one better if I hadn't been in such a funk. I recommend not isolating yourself. Meet people, even if it's not college people. Find out what happens in the town you're going to live, and get a hobby there or something. Basically something to keep you connected to the world outside.
da
Oh, nonnie! It is sooo normal to be scared. I left for college eight years ago, and I can still remember being so terrified. Of everything. And like the airt, I was very sad at first, when my parents dropped me off. Cried my eyes out, in fact. But that'll go away, because you will meet people and there is always the telephone, a very good thing for keeping up ~home relationships. (And nowadays? With skype and shit? You are set.)
I also second all of this. Particularly the things about it not being odd to be alone, being safe at parties (and especially if you are a drinker, to make sure you've got a buddy. Who doesn't drink a ton. Somebody to watch your back.) And one thing I really second is getting out to try to meet people, and particularly people who you've got things in common with. It took me a couple months to figure that out, but once I did and connections were made, college turned out to be an amazing experience. And I know it will for you too. Goooood luck, nonnie! :D
Oh, nonnie! It is sooo normal to be scared. I left for college eight years ago, and I can still remember being so terrified. Of everything. And like the airt, I was very sad at first, when my parents dropped me off. Cried my eyes out, in fact. But that'll go away, because you will meet people and there is always the telephone, a very good thing for keeping up ~home relationships. (And nowadays? With skype and shit? You are set.)
I also second all of this. Particularly the things about it not being odd to be alone, being safe at parties (and especially if you are a drinker, to make sure you've got a buddy. Who doesn't drink a ton. Somebody to watch your back.) And one thing I really second is getting out to try to meet people, and particularly people who you've got things in common with. It took me a couple months to figure that out, but once I did and connections were made, college turned out to be an amazing experience. And I know it will for you too. Goooood luck, nonnie! :D
I'm so jealous- I loved college. It's a little intimidating at first, but it can be an awesome experience.
Second all the advice about getting involved. I had a pretty small social circle in high school, but I really branched out in college. It's remarkably easy, as long as you're willing to be a little uncomfortable at first (if you're not accustomed to, or overly fond of socializing, that is).
Also, go to class. I know that sounds obvious- class is what you're there for- but it's incredibly easy to skip. Oh, and talk in class, too. Go to office hours, even for your bigger classes. Professors love that. If you're going close to home, force yourself to stay on weekends. The people I knew who went home often were the ones who had the hardest time adjusting.
Most of all, have fun! Party (responsibly) if you like to, learn a new language, take karate, find a Supernatural fan club. Whatever you like, whatever you enjoy, chances are you'll be able to find other people who like it, too.
Second all the advice about getting involved. I had a pretty small social circle in high school, but I really branched out in college. It's remarkably easy, as long as you're willing to be a little uncomfortable at first (if you're not accustomed to, or overly fond of socializing, that is).
Also, go to class. I know that sounds obvious- class is what you're there for- but it's incredibly easy to skip. Oh, and talk in class, too. Go to office hours, even for your bigger classes. Professors love that. If you're going close to home, force yourself to stay on weekends. The people I knew who went home often were the ones who had the hardest time adjusting.
Most of all, have fun! Party (responsibly) if you like to, learn a new language, take karate, find a Supernatural fan club. Whatever you like, whatever you enjoy, chances are you'll be able to find other people who like it, too.
So did any nonnies watch The Secret Circle premiere tonight? I did. I thought it was decent. I like that they actually look like they're high school age.
Cassie is too fucking gorgeous, IMHO. Pretty sure it's the only reason I'm going to continue to tune in. Also, all I could do was instantly wish for some femmeslash. Hmmm. Anyone know if any comms exist yet?
Cassie is too fucking gorgeous, IMHO. Pretty sure it's the only reason I'm going to continue to tune in. Also, all I could do was instantly wish for some femmeslash. Hmmm. Anyone know if any comms exist yet?
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