Eh. Use her name and we'll look her up. It's not exactly bland or generic; I think people will guess it's someone in particular. Or you could always mention her in your author's note. (A lot of my flist doesn't read RPF at all, so I have a list of everyone who's appeared in my fic, with cross-references to who they've played on the show and links to photos on imdb.)
Re: Confessions