I'm the anon who posted asking what that kink was a few days ago! Objectification seems to be a related but slightly variant kink, where the objectified person might be treated like a chair or a table as much as a sex toy. It's only the sex toy part that I'm interested in and I don't want them to ever forget that Dean's a person, I just want them to not care about it so much? Servicing kink was what we came up with to describe it and that works for me - the bottom servicing the top. Mmm.
I like it almost as a competition, where Sam might work on cleaning guns while Dean is seriously going at his cock under the table, deep throating it and giving it all he's got. The juxtaposition does it for me, with Dean trying to make Sam lose control and fuck his throat and Sam holding off as long as he possibly can until he gives in and goes to town.
And yes, they're very affectionate afterward and Dean might be pissed off that they don't seem to pay any attention to him during sex but in the long run, kind of likes it. It's nice when he's able to win and get them to pay freaking attention to him and though he won't ever admit it, if the choice is between a cold orgasm and a warm snuggle, he's touch starved enough to take the snuggle. He's used sex as a way to connect with people for so long that he's bewildered but rather entranced by the idea of sex with him being so unimportant, but cuddling and affectionate touches and talk are. He could get sex anywhere but it's been a long, long time since he's had the rest of it.
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I'm the anon who posted asking what that kink was a few days ago! Objectification seems to be a related but slightly variant kink, where the objectified person might be treated like a chair or a table as much as a sex toy. It's only the sex toy part that I'm interested in and I don't want them to ever forget that Dean's a person, I just want them to not care about it so much? Servicing kink was what we came up with to describe it and that works for me - the bottom servicing the top. Mmm.
I like it almost as a competition, where Sam might work on cleaning guns while Dean is seriously going at his cock under the table, deep throating it and giving it all he's got. The juxtaposition does it for me, with Dean trying to make Sam lose control and fuck his throat and Sam holding off as long as he possibly can until he gives in and goes to town.
And yes, they're very affectionate afterward and Dean might be pissed off that they don't seem to pay any attention to him during sex but in the long run, kind of likes it. It's nice when he's able to win and get them to pay freaking attention to him and though he won't ever admit it, if the choice is between a cold orgasm and a warm snuggle, he's touch starved enough to take the snuggle. He's used sex as a way to connect with people for so long that he's bewildered but rather entranced by the idea of sex with him being so unimportant, but cuddling and affectionate touches and talk are. He could get sex anywhere but it's been a long, long time since he's had the rest of it.