Someone wrote in [personal profile] spnanonhaven 2011-07-06 11:14 pm (UTC)

Re: Threesome dilemma

Umm kinda? It was surprisingly casual. I had known that they were attracted to me (two males) but nothing had really been said about it. The three of us were hanging out one night and it came up somehow. I was more surprised that they were okay with it because they both identify as heterosexual, but they were pretty enthusiastic.

I think it worked out well because if it had just been one of them, there may have been this pressure on him because he may have felt like he had to be a "good" partner as it was my first time, but with two of them, it alleviated it, I guess? We set a few ground rules but other than that, we learned as we went. Mainly it was figuring out what I liked, as again, they identified as straight and so weren't really interested in each other as much.

So the situations are pretty different, but I would say set the ground rules and go for it, if you feel comfortable. :)

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