I'm a virgin too but I don't understand this view. What's so complicated about it? You make out a little, take off your clothes, grab each other's parts according to your preferences, then if you want there'll be some fingering/oral/etc etc, then he puts on a condom and sticks it in, unless you're pegging him or something. Then y'all rut for a while and if needed you or him rub your clit, then hopefully you come, he comes, condom goes in the trash. What's the part that got you confused?